Creator
I’m Jennifer—single mom of 2, professional box-breaker, and recovering people-pleaser working in financial services (yes, the irony of someone who questions everything working in a world of strict rules is not lost on me lol).
I’ve always been a thinker outside the box. The kid asking “but why?” when everyone else just accepted how things were. But then I went to college and something shifted. I started noticing these voices in my head—these stories I was telling myself—and I realized: wait, are these even mine?
Turns out, a lot of what I thought was “just how I am” was actually just… things other people said that I’d internalized. Stories I’d picked up and carried around like they were truth when they were really just… noise.
And here’s what I believe: We all have the right to know ourselves. The real ourselves. Not the version we perform for everyone else, not the edited highlight reel, not the “should be” version—the actual, messy, complicated, beautiful truth of who we are.
But somewhere along the way, we lost this. We got so good at fitting in, at being what everyone needed, at telling ourselves the “right” stories that we forgot how to ask: Is this actually true? Is this actually me?
This blog—this community—is for people who are ready to ask those questions. People who have the courage to be vulnerable with themselves. To look at their inner narrative and say “wait, let me check if this is real.”
It’s not always comfortable. It’s definitely not always pretty. But I think it’s our birthright as humans to know who we really are underneath all the layers we’ve collected.
So if you’re tired of performing, if you’re ready to question the stories you’ve been telling yourself, if you want to find your true self even when it’s scary—welcome.
You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.
What I Do:
By day, I work in financial services (someone’s gotta keep the lights on lol). By night and weekends, I’m here—writing, questioning, building this space for all of us who are trying to remember who we were before the world told us who to be.
What This Space Is:
A place to challenge your inner narrative. To ask “is this true?” about the stories in your head. To find your way back to yourself—or discover yourself for the first time.
What You’ll Find Here: